If you’ve been Googling how to handle toddler tantrums , you’re not alone. Tantrums can feel intense (and public, and loud). But in most cases, they’re not “bad behavior.” They’re a sign your toddler is overwhelmed and doesn’t yet have the skills to express big feelings calmly. This short guide keeps it simple: what tantrums mean, what to do in the moment, what not to do, and how to reduce tantrums over time. What Toddler Tantrums Really Mean A tantrum is often the result of