Setting Boundaries With Teens: A Calm, Practical 5-Step Approach That Actually Works Setting boundaries with teens can feel like living in a daily negotiation. One day they’re sweet and reasonable. The next day, every request turns into a debate, an eye-roll, or a slammed door. Most parents don’t struggle because they “don’t know how to be strict.” They struggle because they want boundaries that protect their teen and  the relationship at the same time. And that’s the real ch