When your teen is overwhelmed, arguments escalate fast. This toolkit makes it simpler: what to say, how to hold boundaries, and how to create an SOS plan your teen can actually use. 1) Use a calm “reset” first (10 seconds) Pick one line and repeat it: “I hear you. We’re not fighting.” “Pause. Ten minutes, then we talk.” “I’m listening. Respectful tone.” 2) Boundary scripts (copy + paste) Keep boundaries specific + measurable. Phones / screen time “Phone off at 22:30. If not,