How to Help a Child with Anxiety (Part 2): Calming Tools, Coping Skills, and Confidence-Building Routines If you want to know how to help a child with anxiety, the goal is not to eliminate worry forever. The goal is to teach your child: “I can feel anxious and still cope.” That’s how confidence grows. This is Part 2 of the series. You’ll get practical, parent-friendly tools you can use today, plus routines that reduce anxiety over time. In-the-moment plan (when anxiety spikes